You've read a twisted version of what I said. Yes, I think men should pay the bill when that ask women out. Why? Because they initiated the dates. But since some men now see it as a burden taking care of the bills alone, women should pay bills if she initiated the date and yes, she should pay in full.

If the couple decide on splitting bill, that's fine.

I brought up control, because some women are insisting on splitting bills whether the man request it or not. And I said such women feel by paying their own fair share, they are not under any obligation to the men.

You can't deny some men demand sex or or kiss or hug when the ask a woman out. Now, if that is not an entitlement, then what is? Or do you think a man should be rewarded for paying for dates?

The fact is some men, especially the insecure ones often expect some sexual gratification at the end of a date and the women who insist on paying their bills are in no obligation to fulfil that desire.

Personally, I'm all for whoever initiated the date should pay in full unless both parties reached an agreement to split the bill.