Your opinion would have made sense if you had backed it up with some scientic prove.

You only described a hand full of men who ACTUALLY know what loyalty is and they stand by their partners who love them more and express same.

And if the men are tuning down their affection it doesn't mean the women love them more.

In fact it seems you do agree that men stay with women they love more but PRETEND or don't show they love more.

Also, why should a man "tune down" his affection and expect the woman to give her "full" undivided love and affection? Sound like a sexist move. In your words I hear control and dominance over women. That's why you think men shouldn't express their love fully.

If you love a person show them without pretense, whether you're a man or woman. Let's stop making romantic relationships a competition. It's called a partnership for a reason.

It's a different thing for one partner to make up where the other is lacking. But aside from that, a healthy relationship should breed honesty, respect, loyalty and love on EQUAL grounds, irrespective of gender.