You had every right to express your disapproval. The pregnancy is both your responsibility. I gave my daughter's dad an ultimatum when he started acting like the pregnancy was a result of my carelessness.

I told him to either stay and take responsibility for our child with me or get the hell out and never dream of our child again. he was smart enough to know I meant every word, so he stayed.

Today, our daughter is the only female child he has with two boys. His wife couldn't get pregnant again.

We should stop enabling men to be irresponsible. Raising a child is a man's responsibility as much as the woman's.