You are not a homewrecker at all if you are providing help to married couples. I already told the married women to get their act together. The other woman is the reason most of them have a husband to boost on.

https://medium.com/hello-love/an-open-letter-to-aggressive-women-married-to-cheating-husbands-7f36ceb73d26

It hurt when your spouse isn't returning the same loyalty to you put into the marriage, but you shouldn't take out your frustration the other women who are just as innocent as you.

If your feel unjustly betrayed then do yourself a favor and kick the man to the curb. There is no need for you to humiliate yourself over a man who doesn't value your worth or the marriage.