You are getting defensive for no reason. And I'm speaking for the benefit of MEN AND WOMEN who want a "healthy and stable relationship."

If you want your space so much, do not get married or have children because the moment you do, you NEED to compromise your space and the luxury of singlehood, period. I know because I live in that world of preserving my space and I do know that setting will not be healthy for a successful partnership.

And friend, you do not NEED children to show off of your masculinity. Society puts all that pressure on you so you can control women and preserve the title of being 'masters of the universe'. Your idea of partnership is toxic and needs cleansing.

You need no one but yourself to be masculine. Drawing women into your space when you know you prefer to be in your lonesome is hypocritical and myopic.

Yes, she shouldn't interfere with your decision about your house as long as you are not married to her. But if you a married and have such a crappy mindset on how you respect your wife, then I pity her. No one deserves an asshole who doesn't show her respect or thinks she's a burden.

However, you speak as a bisexual (yes, I have read your post to know), so I'm not surprised you have zero regard for women. You just see them as comfort food which means any woman you end up with will be miserable until she gets out.

Good luck controlling every loser you meet because that is what they are if they are tolerating all the crap you said here.