Wow! That was too much to take in. I feel sorry for you. Too bad most men are weak to handle their own emotions.
I think the entitlement mentality men grew up with makes it challenging for them to realise they hurt women with their words too. It's hypocritically to condemn another over something you are guilty of.
Until ALL men realize the world does not revolve around them, until they accept that they are not entitled to a woman's body and opinion, until they stop seeing themselves as superhumans, until they accept women as important species as they are, they (men) will always feel broken and hurt when a woman speaks up against them.
If you are a man who doesn't feel hurt when criticized, good for you. But don't come telling me "is not all men" because one way or the other you have disrespected a woman or taken advantage of manhood to subdue a woman (or girl) at some point in your life.