…e next fall. However, when I was a young man with a high income and higher future income prospects, I would never have considered even dating a woman who already had children. Marriage would simply have been out of the question, so why waste the time. A woman with children would have been “rated” a flat zero from a dating or relationship perspective, no matter her other qualities. Raising and supporting someone else’s child was not part of my life plan. Also, because I absolutely wanted to have my own children, if I had still been searching for a suit…