When we think feminism is about being unemotional, we struggle with accepting our feelings.
Feminism is about freedom of choice for women to be themselves and have equal opportunities in all sectors of work. Yes, independence is certainly a main role of feminism but those it take out your heart that feels? No!
You are perfectly right to want a romantic partner. But you shouldn’t say you feel guilt about being an independent feminist. Because when you feel guilt for wanting to be loved and cherished you give the impression that feminism is ment to emotionally cage women. And that’s a big fat lie.