What are you forbidding? Is it an abomination to be 45 and unmarried? You sound like the same society bashing singles unmarried women you talked about.
However, I’m done listening to the same sermon from a dysfunctional society. My only happiness is that more women are getting comfortable in spinsterhood. Society can talk all they want, but we ain’t bothered about their opinion. Which is what you and every other confused single woman out there should do.
Until the majority of women start giving society the ‘I don’t give a fuck” attitude, they will always feel entitled to judge single women.