That’s sickening. I have a relative who is impotent but allowed his family blame his wife for their childless marriage. After 9 years, the women decide to try another man, her husband’s cousin staying with them.

She got pregnant and had a baby boy. But she became torn in her husband’s flesh. She was angry at him for keeping his health issue a secret all these years and even allowed his people to humiliate her while he did nothing.

My uncle couldn’t take the shame when the news of his impotence came out. So he divorce the wife and moved to another state. The wife is remarried now with a second baby.

Women shouldn’t blame themselves for infertility issues and they shouldn’t take the blame for the man’s impotence. You never knew him all his life, you don’t know the life he lived in his youth, so why should you take the blame for something you did not cause?