Sorry to hear about your situation. That’s why I said non-monogamy isn’t for everyone. I’m sure your wife will come around if you start practising romance without sex.

Take her on a week trip just enjoy bonding in new places. The best thing is to make her feel alive again.

Look deep into your home, is she stressed? Is her job demanding? I believe when you make her environment conducive to feel connected with you, it will rekindle her affection for you.