"Passive object of desire?" What does that mean? And how is a confident women a passive object wgen she isn't running after a man? You choice of words is not only derogatory, but its completely out of place.

So women spend a lot of effort in BEING DESIRED but don't put in effort in the ABILITY TO GET what they desire? How effluent you are in twisting words.

You know what’s funny? Is that men like you always find a way to disrespect women that make you EARN her time and attention. So I won't bother wasting my time with you.