Our problem is we take every contradicting statement or preference as abuse. We do have the right to like who we like and fall in love with our preferences.

I’m light-skinned and tall. And I tend to like light-skinned tall guys. So I guess that makes me both a racist and heightist.

However, I do not believe I’m racist or heightist because I do not shame others for being different from me.

Although, my physical preferences aren’t strictly adhered to when the guy in question is trustworthy and loyal. The fact that we have our preference doesn’t make horrible people.

I mean what’s freedom if we abound to make choices based on other peoples judgement.