Open Letter to My Married Friend Who Won’t Stop Butting In My Case

Why is it so hard for friends to respect personal boundaries?

Jessey Anthony
4 min readMay 21, 2022
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I recently had a rift with a married female friend of mine. She thinks I’m missing out on something or lack something because I’m financially secure, single, and lonely.

According to her, these are dangerous combinations that mean doom which drives away potential suitors.

On several occasions, she said, “guys are trippin’ all over you, just pick one.”

Huh! I should…?

“You are wasting a rare opportunity, gal. They won’t hang onto you forever.”

For pit’s sake, get off my case, b*tch!

When you’re in a circle of married folks, you never miss a day without them hitting on your marital status. As if marriage is all that makes one happy and fulfilled.

Some of them can barely keep a straight face when talking to their spouses, yet in their twisted minds, they think it is their damn business to tell you what happiness is in marriage.

Are you kidding me?

Dear Mrs, you need to check yourself first before butting into my business.

It is my life! My choice!

Do you know what being single at 30 feels like?

Yes, we are bored, horny, and lonely, but we will choose…

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Jessey Anthony
Jessey Anthony

Written by Jessey Anthony

Motivational speaker, fitness enthusiast, and self-improvement nerd. See how I stay fit and confident: bit.ly/3j0Lm9Z

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