“Oh shit!” I can hear your friend say when you told him there is nothing out there and he’s staying married.

Seriously, women’s sexual dysfunction is as real as man’s. But because society has made it seem like a man’s sexual needs are more important than that of a woman, men tend to run off at the first sign of a woman’s dysfunctional sex stage.

A lot of things can trigger low sex drive and when you’ve been with one person for too long, sex begins to feel stalled. Reflaming old love, showing more affection and being understanding of their body changes is one way to revive a dysfunctional sexual partner.