Oh, I'm unbiased as the letter "F". In your words:

"Why would I care what any woman has to say about my personal effects? It's my stuff, and my apartment. I'm with a woman and several men who quite like it. If they change their minds, they don't need to stay around me. There's a lot of women and men in the world."

In a relationship shouldn’t you care about your partner? I simply translated your words in plain English since you are having a hard time identifying who you are. But it seem you have a short memory too.

You use people as comfort and you discard them when they are not benefiting you or when they ask for BASIC necessity in a relationship, i.e, respect in this senerio.

So yes, you are toxic and it's no surprise you are battling with everyone who isn't in your level. You see, YOUR WAR isn't over. Go deal with it.

Edited: I'm not lucky to have men who respect me in my relationships. I honor my boundaries because I know my worth and I have zero tolerance for men who don’t value other people and respect women as their equal.

I bet you've never dated HIGH VALUE WOMEN before in your life. Well, you've just met one. Chew that hard and digest it so you never forget.