Obviously David, you’re speaking from a man’s misconceptions of what women needs in a man. She’s actually right. Body features get swayed under the bridge when personality surfaces.

David do you realise kindness is an act that is also expressed in words? For me within 30 minutes of speaking to someone I can tell to an extent about their personality.

If he’s handsome, charming and rude, I get instantly turned off and the conversation turns sore. If he’s nerdy, short and unattractive and remarkable intelligent and meek, I get intuitive to know more about him.

Come to think of it 30% of failed relationships or marriages are often because the partners were projecting a different images on their partner, while 60% are because their partners became unattractive.