Not at all. You only knew of these lessons after you lived the experience. Not following through with your advice will make you a hypocrite.

Death is waiting for us all. I believe it's a blessing to have time to fix your errors in life before passing. Some people didn't have that opportunity.

I'm someone who likes to counts her blessings. Forgive me if I'm being overly positive. I pray all goes well with your check up.