“…marrying your partner many times over”
This is brilliant. Many people don’t get it. The fact is most will notice their partner changes without realizing they changed as well. But marrying your partner over and over again, renews the bond.
However, I’m a bit confused as to alternating a need ‘outside” the current relationship. I assume you must be speaking of the financial aspect. I wish you elaborated more on that so people don’t get confused. For me though, sexual needs outside the current arrangement should be considered too.