Lakshmi, you have a point. Raven had no boundaries. However, that's how most of us (women) are when we are in love. We allow the man to abuse us when we love and we think we are doing the right thing to keep the relationship peaceful.

While I condnmn women not having boundaries, I cannot ignore the fact the human heart is more difficult to train than any other part of the body. Which is why one person often gets hurt when love is without loyalty.