It all boils down to cultural and religious prejudices against sex. Boys grow up hiding their hormonal changes. The hide to masturbate for fear of being ridiculed or punished.

So the fast pace began from the adolescence stage. And like every toxic masculine rules, men don't give themselves the permission to enjoy sex as they should. And some think they can only have satisfactory sex if the woman orgasms first, but they never try to find out what pleasure zones turns her on.