In my book cheating is cheating. Your friend was there for you when you needed her and now she needs you, you kicked the door right in her face. This already tells me what a hypothetical person you are.

Pedophilies should be castrated. If their satisfaction can only be from minors then they shouldn’t be allowed into the mainstream. It will be wise if James stayed away from his family while his wife supports his healing process. At least if he loves his children and really want to stop this disgusting habit he should do it for them.