I'm happy I do not live in the world you live in because you are still centuries backward. But I will save you the trouble about the recent changes in marriage and divorce.

Yes, women used to be focused on marriage and family but now the stats on that has declined over the years.

Of course, there are woman who still live in that illusion and they are the same to divorce early in their marriages. However, more women have woken from the changes of patriarchy which is what marriage is to women.

Anyway, you don't have to believe my words. The stats speak for themselves. You should take more time reading the last article. It will explain the recent trend in marriage.

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/marriage-divorce.htm

https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2021/marriages-and-divorces.html

https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2019/02/13/8-facts-about-love-and-marriage/

https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/07/case-against-marriage/591973/