I’m 36 and I feel fabulous spending time with myself. As far as looks goes, I don’t get much dates even when I pretty much checked the box. Why? Because men assume I’m already taken still I get dates but not as much as I did when I was a teenager or in my twenties.
Relationships are headaches for me so I rather stick to no commitments. Thinking of marriage say in my fifties or so. In the meantime, I’m rocking all the way.
Don’t do that to yourself. Whatever your age, men will always want you if they see how confident you are in yourself. Putting that much pressure on yourself will make you desperate and unattractive, and no one likes people with issues.