I feel you. Ok. It hurts when you've been betrayed by someone you love. Damn! Why do you think I'm not excited about marriage?

In your shoes, that betrayal sucks. But what I don't accept is trashing the women your husband sleeps with. Leave them to karma. Or at least approach them and hear their side of the story too Because some of them were also lied to.

Truth is, if a man lies about his marriage or badmouths his wife to get into a woman's pants, that says little of his character. Yet some married women don't see the fault in their husband, instead the throw shades at the woman.

Sis, the wives can ignore my advice but sooner or later they are gonna make a choice of my 3 options directly or indirectly. Unless the choose to die in the marriage. I could care less what they choose to do with their life. I don't take trash from women who bash their fellow women because of a lying cheat who isn't worth the headache.