I did give her options. It wasn't an ultimatum. I told her she can continue her lover affair and lose my financial support OR end it and still have my support.

As long as she's dependent on me, I don't mind being the bad guy. It comes with the job. I'm a friend and a leader to my child.

I will not agree to all her choices and she will not agree to all my decisions.

I'm the parent who makes her chil take responsibility for consequences from their decisions.

If my daughter thinks she's old enough to handle the responsibilities of a relationship then she doesn't need my financial help, period. She can figure herself out as she's a grown women.

But she knows she's not and ended the relationship. If I find out she's still sneaking around with the boy or any other boy, I will make due of my threat.

It's because some parents are too weak to teach their children emotional control so they think they need to dance to their children's tone. Sorry, that is not good parenting.