I couldn’t agree more. Your whole content makes a lot of sense.
Nobody really knows what they want is subjective. Circumstances change, events happen, life creeps in, it gets messy, sometimes is good and overwhelming. That’s why we are humans. There’s no perfect course of action or thinking and I believe that’s why we are determined to find one amazing tip or another to fill the emptiness of not knowing what comes next.
On the other, some people really do know what they what and they stick to it. We call it principles or discipline. In order words they are a bunch of rules guiding a person’s behavior.