I completely agree with you. Relationships should be based on honesty, mutual respect and interest. And you are right. My strategy will not work for everyone. I simply wrote from my experience and I wouldn't be sharing this is if they didn't work for me.

However, you are missing a point here. These strategies are just for the first stage of attraction. Most men are losing confidence in asking women out so if women are lending an extra hand, men will feel more confident in expressing their interest. And that is what my post is about.