I agree with all your points especially on the “…real hair or weave”. It’s embarrassing when I get asked that question from a guy I hardly know. I mean it’s my hair, whatever I choose to do with it is my business. Your job is to admire it, compliment and move on.

But I guess it’s not just black girls that get asked such questions. These days wigs and weave is on the trend, both whites and blacks. So I try not to take it personal when I’m asked if my hair is real or not.