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How to Get Off a Sexless Relationship
Being single without sex s*ck!
Having a long dry spell is like becoming a virgin again. You get intimidated by the sight of a real penis. You wonder if it will hurt.
Let face it, dildos are soft and gentle because we choose the rhythm and intensity of the push.
I love wild sex. The feeling is euphoric. But having another person ride me is what gets me insecure and anxious.
The first half of the year were banal. I was buried in work. I was more focused on getting the next project done. Evaluating and executing new strategies to promote my fashion store.
I replaced all that energy I had for sex and relationships with work. It felt good and exhilarating for the most part until I started to get depressed.
I would complain about every bit of mistake from my staffs. Replaying a meeting that went wrong in my head or thinking about reasons why I can’t quit working harder.
The pressure started to take a turn on not just my mental health but also on my physical health.
My body got weary. I lost touch with my glow.
That’s when I realized I had to do something. I wasn’t ready to be in a relationship or to deal with annoying men’s ego weighing me down any further. So I…
