First, women do have role models. Anwwe are not ashamed to share our problems and get solutions to them.
Unlike men. They will rather die in silence than tell someone else they problems. Even therapy, men rarely go unless when the woman drags them to the therapist.
As fathers not being role models. Where are they and why are they not in their sons lives? You can read about these in another story.
https://jesblake85.medium.com/why-we-dont-hold-men-responsible-for-the-rise-of-fatherless-children-7fb5246ff04f?source=user_profile---------22----------------------------