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Did You Expect to See Her Again?
Glorified douches always leave little to the imagination.
So you’re going through another breakup with another person who lied or cheated or couldn’t commit, and you wonder what’s going on.
Unfortunately, the problem may have something to do with your picker — that little part of your brain that tells you to go with the flow and see what happens.
Many of us choose the same kind of people over and over again, and we fall into a pattern, even when those relationships don’t work out.
Asshole, jerk, or douchebag — it’s always that bad boy type of guy that women are drawn to.
Assholes drive women nuts, yet when a perfect gentleman comes along, they let them pass.
If you’re dating an asshole, you’re unlucky. If you’ve dated three assholes in a row, you’re unlucky.
If you’ve dated more than five assholes in a row, it’s not luck; you are an asshole magnet. This means you are giving off an energy that attracts assholes, and you don’t stand up for yourself.
These guys don’t go around with a sign printed on their forehead saying, “I’m an asshole,” but sometimes, you can tell he is one after the first date if you are paying attention, saving yourself from future heartache.
