Call me selfish, an asshole, or whatever name you fancy. In the country where the incident happened, I had every right to deny him paternity over my child because we weren't married. And I do not regret my decision one bit.
Besides, I was given him an easy way out of child support so how is it selfish?
Maybe you men can stop being d*ckheads and sleeping with every thing under pants. If not, you would know when you are being fooled and stop accusing loyal women of cheating.
Have you ever thought that if men were sleeping with one woman at a time in a relationship and being fully committed to her menstrual cycle and body changes you would actually know when your child is popping out?
But of course, you excuse your bad behaviors and blame women for every consequence of your actions.