Birds of mind, I have noticed you get triggered by comments that portray men irresponsible behaviours. The fact still remains that women have lived under toxic male culture for centuries will not to be erased in a decade.
You and I know that toxic masculinity has existed since the 20s before the advent of feminism.
To date most married women are living under the vices of irresponsible husbands. That's why you see old marriage divorce rates higher than younger marriage divorces.
https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/
The statistics are there to open your eyes instead of judging by the few people you know.
If your so called ideology is the normality then why are 60% of divorces happening after 40 years of building a life with a spouse?
Instead of criticizing every male gender perspectives, do better by spreading campaigns that tear down toxic masculinity.
We all (both men and women, boys and girls) have suffered too much at the hands of patriarchal male rule and we need a collective effort to eradicate this culture.
So enough with your hypocritical judgements and get you facts straight.