Benbyb, if men want to know about their biological children then they should drop their pride and work with women with respect and dignity.
You don't walk over women and expect us to comply to your demands. We suffer the burden, pain and sacrifice more to bring a child into this world.
Most men don't get involved during the pregnancy stages. And as such they shouldn't know the paternity of the child.
So yes, it's natural that women participate more in reproduction and we deserve to have more rights over men.
Until men start contributing to the pain and suffering women endure in childbearing, they should stop fighting women over their maternal rights.
Most men only offer financial support, just like my daughter's father. And you expect us to share our rights over the child equally? Sorry, I denied my ex a lot of rights since he wasn't physically present in my daughters life.
If men want more rights over their children, they should drop all social norms that make masculinity a threat to women. Because that is the only way men can recognize women as equal partners in a relationship. And if that happens, there will be no power struggle.