Auch, defensive much! I know it hurts to admit your truth. You know I have read some of your posts and you seem to have no problem with insulting women. Now you get offended because I spoke out your shit in plain words.
Are you trying to gaslight me? No wonder your ex says you're a misogynist. I can see the handwriting on the wall. You seem to get away with manipulating and guilt-tripping people, but that won't work on me.
Shitty people often tolerate shitty behaviors and that's the fact. Being with someone you claim to love and not asking their opinion is your plans is disrespectful as f*ck. And only shitty people do that, irrespective of gender. You don't want to be called out on your shits? I have a solution, change.
Since you decided to take my post personally and attack me, now I'm doing the same. Your relationship dynamic isn't healthy and will not guarantee long-term stability, which you know. So when I speak of a "healthy and stable" partnership, don't insert yourself into the scenario because you will mislead people.
All my posts are unbiased. Sometimes I focus on women and sometimes I focus on men. But all drive towards specific points- personal growth, mutual respect, healthy partnership, and equality.
Yours on the other hand, is focused on self-interest which doesn't serve the purpose of equality for both genders. So it's obvious we will not agree on this subject.
Anyway, I don't have to waste my time lecturing you because you don't believe in the equality of sexes. If not, the idea of mutual respect in a relationship (which is what my post is about) would not disgust you so much.