As someone who always looks at the positive side of every situation and try to see the good in everyone, I can tell you it's not easy to console someone these days.

Your friend may not have dismissed your feelings the way you see it. Sure your feelings matter and you are allowed to get into your feelings when you are hurting instead of brushing it off.

I think you shouldn't ignore how she made you feel. Talk to her about it because she may not know how deeply she hurt you.