Severing ties with ‘women centering men’ is the best thing for your sanity and safety. — Lately, social media has been blowing up about women detoxifying the male gaze and some have reported loving themselves more and having better choices in their relationships. However, some women are still hungry for male attention. It would seem that some habits do not die easily. These women will do…

If he couldn’t break you, you’ve won — I dated one asshole way back after my university days. He was everything I wanted in a man, hot, artistic, jovial, and very confident in himself. Everything was nice and rosy at the beginning. Things started to go downhill when he got fired from his job so we had to…

While we are on the top of decentering men, can we get “men hating” out of the way? — We live in a world where everything a woman does revolves around men. But when women exclude men in their lives, all hell lets loose and suddenly, “women hate men.” Whenever women decide to do something for themselves without involving men, men slap on the “hating” tag. If she doesn’t…

It might be time to let go of something that isn’t for you. — The ugly truth about indecisive people is that they never make up their minds about anything. Geoffrey is like that. He is a smart and kind-hearted guy, but he has a reputation for being incredibly indecisive. Whether it was choosing a restaurant for dinner, picking a movie to watch, or…

If a girl doesn’t like you, she wouldn’t care! — Playing hard-to-get is an age-old trick for dating and mating. When you make someone work a little hard to get next to you, they won’t stop till you’re theirs. Playing hard-to-get is a way for people to identify high-quality partners. A study by the University of Rochester discovered that making…

The not-so-AHA moment you realize you might be settling. — I was talking with Chad and Travis when I suddenly realize something I have experienced in some of my relationships but couldn’t point out why I didn’t do something to stop the inevitable sooner than later. You see Chad is in a serious monogamous relationship with his girlfriend of nine…

Is he controlling or insecure? — I’ve never understood why guys feel insecure when their girlfriends have guy best friends until Kelvin let me in on how men’s brain work. Kelvin has been my business partner for four years now and he recently got engaged. We talk about everything, including our weird habits. Kelvin is one…

“If you can be anything in this world, then dare to be different.” — Ever wondered why you suck at drawing? Why you’re a terrible singer? Why your job is boring? Have you ever felt like you can’t make sense of the world around you? Maybe you’re constantly up at night, wondering why your life is miserable. You don’t feel happy about living yet…

It wasn’t love to begin with and now is the best time to get out. — When I hear some women talk about their emotional distress, confusion, pain, and discomfort and wondering what happened to their fairytale love story that started with such a bang. Invariably a combination of these words follows: “Prince charming”, “Soulmate”, “Man of my dreams”, “Swept me off my feet”, “Stole my…